• Nichole White

Find “Mr. Perfect” For You” -- He Does Exist

Updated: Feb 18

The man of your dreams is not hiding under your bed, you are going to have to actively seek him!



Why is it that women seem to look for something that doesn't exist and then be disappointed when she doesn't get it? Especially in men?


Don’t feel bad if you did find yourself looking for perfection. I did that for a long time, deathly afraid that if I didn't get perfect, I’d failed. It’s just not possible, so that’s a load you don’t have to bear anymore!


Let’s get one thing out of the way: there is no Mr. Perfect. The sooner you realize this (and come to terms with your own imperfections), the sooner you can get on with finding Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect-For-YOU!


Prince Charming, riding on a white stallion, either lost his way or found Princess Charming and got married on his way to your castle...or, you know, your apartment.


Get over it and get on with it. The man of your dreams is not hiding under your bed, you are going to have to actively seek him. But don’t worry, this search can be a rewarding and enjoyable experience.


It doesn't matter what any of your numbers are…like age, height, weight or income. Somewhere out there in the big wide world there is a man who will admire and respect you...enjoy your company…..then love you….and he will see that you are beautiful and desirable.


That old adage, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder,” is actually true.


One thing I learned was that although I may not completely fit my country’s “standard of beauty”, I did fit quite a few men’s individual standard of beauty...or a least close enough! And that’s all you need!


What is thought to be beautiful in one part of the world is completely different from what is considered attractive in another. It varies from one part of this country to another. Heck, it’s even different from house to house!


So don’t stress yourself out. Mr. Close-enough-to-perfect-for-you might be just around the corner...if you’ll give him a chance!


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