Detail Your Ideal Male helps women properly observe, evaluate, date and marry better men to avoid unnecessary pain in their relationships. 

Learn to avoid things like abusers, moochers, baby daddy drama and more by taking action on the things YOU see in a potential mate... before it's too late!


Hi, I’m Nichole White, creator of Detail Your Ideal Male.

Welcome to my world.

Before we get started, though, you must know one thing about me…

I say this every year: I hate Father's Day.

Not that I hate the concept of a day honoring fathers. I loved celebrating that day with my own Dad when he was here. 

What I really hate about this particular holiday is reading post after post in my social networking streams like Facebook, Twitter, Google+, etc. where female friends, acquaintances and yes, even strangers, are doing one main thing...complaining about their "baby-daddies":

"My baby-daddy ain't s***. He doesn't visit his son! He doesn't pay child support.”

And on and on and on.

So, why have a child--or even a relationship--with this guy in the first place?!

Why? Because a lot of us women do what I call “date by default”, meaning we agree to a relationship with a guy just because he asks us out. Then we get into that relationship and try to stick to it no matter what. We have to “get in where we fit in” because who  knows if another halfway decent guy is gonna come along anytime soon, right? We aren’t getting any younger, you know.

Now, I understand being in love, and being blind to his faults…at least initially. But it's time that us girls get real and ruthless about the kinds of guys we choose to associate with. And especially start having children with.

That's why I came up with the concept of Detail Your Ideal Male.

It's here to help women avoid getting involved with men that are the primary deadbeat dads, moochers, and jerks that are complained about the world over. If we would just pay attention to who he really is and not let emotions overwhelm logic, we can avoid A LOT of these issues.

It’s time to make a plan, decide what type of man you want to be with, and pursue the right one for you, not wait on just any guy to wander by.

Got it? Good. Let’s roll!